If you know me very well, you know that I am terrible at making decisions. For the most part, I feel afraid of saying 'yes' to something because I know that it automatically means 'no' to something else and I am also afraid of missing out, so yeah. On another note, I feel weird knowing that my decisions for the most part will also affect the people around me.
Lately, I've noticed that I have to make decisions every single day and for some reason and it has become harder and harder because the decisions are not always small like choosing where to eat for lunch. I've been facing life changing decisions that honestly have the potential to straight up mess up my day because I feel stuck in my indecisiveness. It's been a slow process of learning to say 'yes' and also learning to saying 'no'. Do not be afraid to say yes when you want to say yes or feel lead to say yes! Same thing happens when it comes to saying no. Then celebrate! Even if its a small decision, it might be a small step in the right direction.
I am going to take this opportunity to say thank you to my boyfriend + my best friends + coworkers for helping me to make decisions when it comes to choosing what to eat, what movie to watch, or what shoes to wear.
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